Avoid this Heartbreak on the Twin Flame Journey
- Twin Flame Guidance
- Apr 20
- 3 min read
Updated: Aug 4
She wasn't yet my client, so I couldn't give her advice. But I sure wanted to, telling her that what she was about to do was a big mistake, because we could have avoided the heartbreak and devastation she went through. And you can avoid it, too.
It would’ve saved her two months of tears and misery, simply receiving the advice, “Do not do this. It’s a terrible idea.”
You see, Angela was going to Brazil to meet her Twin Flame for the first time.
"My soul is sending me," she exclaimed with glee. "I saved exactly the right amount of money… I can’t wait to meet him!"
To be specific, She was going to Brazil to take a workshop from her Twin Flame.
And it backfired.
Completely.
Now here’s the thing… I’m not against people going to meet their Twin Flame, even if it’s a hierarchy position, such as student and teacher.
Yet, Angela had an expectation.
She thought she’d get to Brazil, there would be sunny beaches, and lots of s3x.
Instead, she got to Brazil, and her hopes were dashed.
“I think I finally met the one,” her much younger Twin Flame told her, his eyes full of love and delight. "I’ve been seeing my girlfriend for a while, and I could really see myself being with her."
Instead of being cuddled and loved, Angela spent the week shellshocked, taking in great workshop information, but that really wasn’t why she was there.
Was Angela wrong that her soul wanted her to be there?
Not necessarily. Our souls use the Twin Flame relationship to grow us… And that doesn’t mean rainbows and butterflies. Because it doesn't mean the ego will necessarily get what it set out for. And that's when we have the let down, the tower moment, the heartbreak.
While she held herself together during her trip, all she really wanted to do was cry and have a breakdown -- which is understandable! The longing for your twin flame is a deeper longing than almost any other.
And she thought she would have a paradise filled with deliciousness.
If I had been Angela's coach, I'd have explained that, while her soul may be calling her there, be careful with her intentions. To be aligned within herself - and with her self love -- so that she's not energetically needing anything from him.
Coming from that place, he can actually meet her. If she is needy, she repells the twin flame.
Think of it like this: If someone in your family is needy, does that feel exciting? Or like a drag on your energy? The twin flame feels that energy, amplified.
You want to be in an aligned place, so they feel deliciously attracted to you... instead of repelled. If - you want the relationship to be a close one.
On reintegration back home, Angela had a lot healing to do, which might have been just what her soul was begging for.
I always say, we can do things the easy way or the hard way.
Angela did it the hard way.
I wish I'd caught her sooner. I wish she had been able to do the inner work BEFORE going to Brazil, rather than after.
If you want to do this journey the easy way, instead of the hard way, book a session because you'll receive guidance and practices for your specific situation.
To help you beyond the pain and into the joy.
Twin flames consistently tell me, you helped me understand. The journey is so much easier now.
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